SEX: Do You Know Vagina!?

 

 

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THE VAGINA! The part women have….but don’t explore enough! The area men love so much, but don’t give enough attention!  The vagina is a complex part of a woman that everyone, male, and female should be educated about. Vagina discussions are always an interesting topic to indulge in! When I was much younger, I remember being in conversations with my friends, really having NO idea how our va jay jay’s REALLY worked! So instead of guessing, I took it upon myself to do my own research about my girly part…..Which means, I asked my mama, and googled it, LOL! As an adult, I’ve realized that people still misunderstand the vagina! Even more surprising, they are very sexually active ADULTS who don’t know the vagina’s ins and outs… But, always, going in and out of them! How do we have sex on a regular, but have no idea what goes on with one of the key tools used in the activity?!

 

Dear Ladies:

Sex is normal, enjoyable, and healthy….. especially when done with protection! I know some ladies are thinking, “Well, I don’t have a man, what am I suppose to do?” or “I’m waiting till I get married”. We don’t need a man for a sexual experience! It’s called masturbation! Masturbation is another form of sexual stimulation. It can be done without a partner! A ton of women are ashamed of admitting they masturbate. Why? Don’t be afraid to explore down there! Be unapologetic about your sexuality, and desires! Treat masturbation like an experiment that will benefit your future sex life. Go to your local sex shop; purchase a few RELIABLE sources of pleasure. Can’t afford that? Use your hand! And no you don’t have to stick anything inside your vagina to please yourself, your clitoris will do the job, LOL.

Relax and Rub!

You don’t like to masturbate?  How do you get into it? Well, one thing I would suggest is to watch porn! Yea… I know… ONLY MEN WATCH PORN. Not true! It’s a stereotype that only men are into porn! If you watch sex flicks, it’s normal, and you should continue. For the women who have never watched it, at least entertain the idea. Loosen up! Porn can contribute to understanding what turns you on. Over the years, women have been taught to never exude pride or openness about sexuality. That’s over! Women are much more open about their needs now. Find out what you enjoy, and voice it to your man! And, of course, be classy to the public, but never ashamed!

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Work That Vagina!

Furthermore, did you know the vagina is a muscle?  And just like any other muscle, it needs to be worked out, and strengthened in order to be at its best! Having an orgasm can strengthen those vaginal muscles! The more sex, and/or orgasms you have, the tighter and more pleasurable sex becomes. Thought it was the opposite right?  Plus, it’s a known fact that orgasms improve our mental health, boosts our immune systems, and used as a sleep aide!  Kegel exercises are another technique to succeed in strengthening your vaginal muscles! They contribute to tightening the muscles directly related to reaching an orgasm through penetration!

Use It, Or Lose it!

More importantly, if we don’t use it, we lose it ladies! If we stop using our va jay jays for too long, we will lose the urge to want sex! Don’t we enjoy good sex? YES! Less sex also decreases your chance of ENJOYING your future sexcapades. Our vaginas can also become LESS lubricated over time if not used! Ugh…who wants dry cootie!??  Lastly, the more the G-spot is given attention, the more sensitive, and pleasurable, it becomes as well!

Dear Men:

I have had PLENTY of conversations with my friends, and associates, about how men have NO IDEA how to please a woman sexually, but specifically, through vaginal penetration. We don’t know if it’s laziness, or ignorance. Whatever the case is, it’s time to stop being lazy, or get educated! Women are more focused on satisfying themselves sexually these days, so I’m sure you can be replaced! Sorry.

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The Best She Ever Had?

Yes, there is a difference between good chemistry in bed, and mind-bowing sex! Just because she’s wet, DOES NOT MEAN YOU’RE GIVING HER MIND-BLOWING sex! A woman can be turned on by a man’s presence, chemistry, kissing, etc.  Or simply because she LIKES HIM! She LIKES the IDEA of HIM enjoying HER sexually! A man that is successful in bed with a woman, stimulates her with knowledge of the vagina, spoken words, intentions, and four play! For a lot of women, it’s very necessary to be aroused on every level, before we can even begin to call a man “The Best We Ever Had.”

 

Hit That Spot Boy!

But, let’s get down to the point! The most ignored part of a woman’s vagina, by men, is the G-spot! Yes it exists! The G-Spot is a bean-shaped part of the vagina located one to three inches up the front vaginal wall. Men need to be aware, and concentrate on this part the woman’s vagina! G-spot satisfaction has to be developed through direct stimulation, over time, in order to produce greater sensitivity.

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So, now you know where the spot is. But do you  know the best way to get there? Here is a video on helpful positions that will increase a woman’s G-spot pleasure! Enjoy!

 

Play Your Positions!

In order to reach the highest level of sexual gratification from the vagina, the G-spot area must be openly explored from both men and women. A woman cannot be afraid to examine herself, and a man should be compelled to assist a woman in reaching her sexual peak! And if you don’t know, G-spot orgasms are much more satisfying than clit orgasms! So basically, let’s all be selfless, educated, confident, and unashamed on this subject! It benefits BOTH parties!

Part 2 coming soon….

Thank you for reading E.ST.

Kisses,

Krystle Kelley

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